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Learn a few ways to play with your new HeroType Conversation Cards

The Daily Hero Check-In: A Parent’s Guide

This deck contains 100 questions designed to help you discover the "Hero" inside your child. The questions are categorized into four HeroTypes: Bravery, Creativity, Curiosity, and Teamwork.

How to Play

  1. Pick a Transition Moment: Use the deck during a consistent time, such as the car ride home, snack time, or while walking from the bus stop.

  2. Select a Pillar: Ask your child which "Hero strength" they want to talk about today:

    • Bravery (Red): For reflecting on challenges and growth.

    • Creativity (Yellow): For sparking imagination and fun.

    • Curiosity (Blue): For exploring mysteries and big thoughts.

    • Teamwork (Green): For discussing friendship and family.

  3. One-a-Day: Draw a single card from that category. The goal is one meaningful conversation, not a long interview.

The "Golden Rules" for Families

The "Pass" Power: If your child isn't ready to share or feels a question is too personal, let them say "Pass" and pick a different card or category.

Model the Strength: If they are stuck, answer the question yourself first. Sharing your own mistakes or "big ideas" shows them it is safe to be vulnerable.

Validate, Don't Fix: When they share a struggle, focus on the bravery it took to face it. Avoid jumping straight into "fix-it" mode.

Active Listening: Give them your full attention. The magic isn't just in the question, but in the fact that you are truly interested in the answer.

A Weekly Rhythm Example

If you prefer structure, you can assign a theme to each school day:

  • Monday: Bravery (Reflect on the start of the week).

  • Tuesday: Creativity (Spark some mid-week imagination).

  • Wednesday: Curiosity (Explore wonders and mysteries).

  • Thursday: Teamwork (Focus on school relationships).

Friday: Hero’s Choice (Let them pick any card to celebrate the weekend).

A Stronger Connection in 5 Minutes a Day

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Pick Your Moment

Car rides. Dinner tables. Bedtime. Waiting rooms. The best conversations happen when you least expect them.

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Pick Your Moment

Car rides. Dinner tables. Bedtime. Waiting rooms. The best conversations happen when you least expect them.

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Let Them Choose

Hand over the power. Let your child pick a color - Bravery, Creativity, Curiosity, or Teamwork - based on how they're feeling.

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Let Them Choose

Hand over the power. Let your child pick a color - Bravery, Creativity, Curiosity, or Teamwork - based on how they're feeling.

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Listen

Ask the question. Then just… listen. No fixing, no lecturing. You'll be amazed at what they share when the pressure's off.

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Listen

Ask the question. Then just… listen. No fixing, no lecturing. You'll be amazed at what they share when the pressure's off.

Try HeroType Conversation Cards

100 conversation cards designed to unlock what your child is really thinking, feeling, and dreaming about.

Try HeroType Conversation Cards

100 questions. 4 hero strengths. A lifetime of conversations you'll be glad you had.

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